FINGER
SALUTES ON COUNTRY ROADS
By Bret Burquest
Country dudes who travel the back roads of rural
Being a former City Slicker who has slowly evolved into a
Country Bumpkin over the years, I've learned there's a definite etiquette to
finger salutes.
First of all, this is a man thing. If you finger salute a
woman, she either thinks she has a flat tire or you're some sort of pervert,
both common occurrences on dusty, lonely roads. But if a woman finger salutes
you, it’s probably your wife or girlfriend, and she’s in a bad mood.
Finger saluting is only done on isolated slow terrain,
mostly dirt roads. Usually men who salute other men live somewhere down the road,
at least a mile or more from a small town.
Never finger salute within fifty miles of an actual city, a
place that has more than one stoplight or a building higher than two stories.
City slickers take exception to any sort of finger salute and may make a quick
U-turn to discuss the matter.
There are several different salutes, each with its own
meaning, always performed by the hand on top of the steering wheel.
The raised index finger is the most common. This generally
means “howdy.”
The raised middle finger is another matter. Don’t ever use
this salute unless you have lots of tattoos and a gun rack in your rear window
with at least one shotgun visible at all times. This is the “fight or flight”
salute, which means you either want to engage in a physical altercation or you
want to be chased across a couple of county lines by angry strangers.
The raised ring finger is also a no-no. This is a difficult
finger to raise by itself and is often mistaken for
the raised middle finger.
The raised pinky finger is also not a wise move unless
you’re a hairdresser or an interior decorator. If you get the same salute in
return, perhaps you have found that special someone to do your nails.
The raised two fingers, the index and middle finger, is my
favorite. It has multiple meanings so you usually can’t go wrong. To ancient
hippies, it’s the old “peace” sign of the ‘60’s. To conservatives, it’s the
“victory” sign Richard Nixon used to wave, with both hands, whenever he felt
giddy or had too much scotch. To most everyone else, it means “howdy, howdy.”
The last alternative is raising all four fingers. This is
somewhat rare, often done by overly enthusiastic people who want to sell you
something. It’s also used by daring young men who want to prove they can steer
a vehicle with just their thumb.
Another consideration is the sequence of events. Sometimes
when you give a finger salute, the other guy doesn’t give one in return. This
can be very humiliating. Usually, I’ll wait until the other guy gives me a
salute first. Then I try to give him one back instantaneously so he’ll think we
did it at the same time. I figure it’s more sociable if done simultaneously.
Even more humiliating is giving a finger salute then
realizing it’s actually a woman. Often from a distance it’s hard to tell the
driver’s gender. Some back road women tend to resemble middle linebackers.
The most intriguing aspect of finger salutes is that you
only see the hand on the steering wheel. The other hand is never in sight. I
often wonder what it’s up to but can only speculate.
If you’re looking for some excitement in your life, give the
middle finger salute to the next pickup truck occupied by more than one yahoo. Look
the driver straight in the eye and smile menacingly. It also helps to mouth
some words, even if you can’t be heard.
Then simply wait for the adventure to begin – it shouldn’t
take too long.
Just make sure you’re buckled up and have a full tank of gas
because you’re going to very busy behind the wheel for a while.
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Quote for the Day – "I escaped the
big-city Rat Race a couple of decades ago and have found peace on a dusty road,
deep in the Boondocks. I now live where all the beautiful people live.
Unfortunately, I'm the first to arrive." Bret
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Bret Burquest is an award-winning
columnist and author of four novels. Contact bret@centurytel.net
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