*****

Note: To view Gene’s Blogs posted before February 2012, just visit the “Articles” and “Odds ‘N Ends” sections of NuPathz at http://www.nupathz.com/

Download Free – James Allen’s “AS A MAN THINKETH” See below for info…

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YOU KNOW YOU’RE IN A REDNECK CHURCH IF:

1. The finance committee refuses to provide funds for the purchase of a chandelier because none of the members knows how to play one.

2. People ask, when they learn that Jesus fed the 5000, whether the two fish were bass or catfish and what bait He used to catch ‘em.

3. When the pastor says, “I’d like to ask Bubba to help take up the offering,” five guys and two women stand up.

4. Opening day of deer season is recognized as an official church holiday.

5. A member of the church requests to be buried in his 4-wheel-drive truck because “It ain’t never been in a hole it couldn’t get out of.”

6. The choir is known as the “OK Chorale!”

7. In a congregation of 500 members, there are only seven last names in the church directory.

8. People think “rapture” is what you get when you lift something too heavy.

9. The baptismal pool is a #2 galvanized “Wheeling” washtub.

10. The choir robes were donated by (and embroidered with the logo from) Billy Bob’s Barbecue.

11. The collection plates are really hubcaps from a ‘56 Chevy.

12. Instead of a bell you are called to service by a duck call.

13. The minister and his wife drive matching pickup trucks.

14. The communion wine is Boone’s Farm “Tickled Pink.”

15. “Thou shall not covet” applies to huntin’ dogs, too.

16. The final words of the benediction are, “Y’all come back now, ya hear?”

Author/Originator Unknown

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And remember to take some time out every day just for you, to count your blessings, hug your loved ones and enjoy life’s wonders.  I hope you have a really great day!

**DON’T MISS THE WRAP-UP “THOUGHT FOR THE DAY”!!!

ARE YOU READY FOR A CHANGE?  Then be sure to check out the rest of our stuff (books, thoughts, quotations, links, articles, Words of Wisdom, Odds ‘N Ends, and much, much more) on our main site at:  http://www.nupathz.com/   We have over 1000 pages of everything from videos, jokes, useless facts, bumper stickers and silly signs to humorous stories, off-the-wall thoughts and plenty of terrific articles to help you with your self improvement and personal growth efforts! 

SAVE!!!  DOWNLOAD ANY BOOK FOR LESS THAN TWO DOLLARS!

FREE 15 page previews on all books!  Check ‘em out…

Also – Select Titles are now available through the Apple iBookstore. See Below…

Change Your Thoughts – Change Your Life!

FREE DOWNLOAD – James Allen’s “As A Man Thinketh”

Originally published in 1902, it’s the book that has provided the foundation for many of today’s self improvement and personal growth programs.  Read the original book that has helped millions of people find their way to a better, more enjoyable life.

Available from Nupathz.com at http://www.nupathz.com/Free_E-Books.htm

HAVE YOU EVER WONDERED why we are who we are – or why we’re even on this old planet in the first place?  Check out the possibilities in “WHAT AM I DOING HERE?” by Gene Simmons.  Just go to:   http://www.lulu.com/spotlight/genenupathz  - or to the “Books” section of NuPathz.com at http://www.nupathz.com/newlit1.htm 

* ” WHAT AM I DOING HERE?” is ALSO AVAILABLE through any major book retailer…

ISBN 1-4116-4824-2

Note: This title is also available from the Apple iBookstore and may be downloaded directly to your iPhone®, iPad®, or iPod touch® using the iBook app.

MORE ABOUT “WHAT AM I DOING HERE?”

There are a lot of unanswered questions in this old world.  Many are related to our religious or spiritual beliefs including - “What Am I Doing Here?”  From our present perspective as humans wandering this old planet, it’s highly unlikely that any of us will ever know with any degree of certainty.  That in and of itself may be an absolutely intentional element in the design of this marvelous system in which we find ourselves.  However, just because an answer may be elusive doesn’t mean that it’s not worth pursuing.  It can be especially beneficial because by asking the more difficult questions, we are given the opportunity to step outside of our comfort zone to look beyond those concepts and ways of thinking that have become so very comfortable for us.  This in turn then, enables us to grow and mature both as individuals and collectively as a society.

For a Quick Preview, click http://www.lulu.com/browse/preview.php?fCID=109475

OTHER BOOKS by Gene Simmons:

“Is This as Good as it Gets?”

ISBN 1-4116-4415-8

 “Up Close and Personal”  (Also see note below…)

ISBN 1-4116-5179-0

“Just Between Us Critters”  (Also see note below…)

ISBN 1-4116-6176-1

“Just Go For It!”

ISBN 1-4116-7577-0

“A Short Spiritual Journey”  (Also see note below…)

ISBN 1-4116-8567-9

***FOR MORE INFORMATION on all books, just go to http://www.nupathz.com/newlit1.htm 

SAVE!!!  DOWNLOAD ANY BOOK FOR LESS THAN TWO DOLLARS!

FREE 15 page previews on all books!  Check ‘em out…

Note: These titles are also available from the Apple iBookstore and may be downloaded directly to your iPhone®, iPad®, or iPod touch® using the iBook app.  Available in EPub format for most other eBook Readers.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY

Frisbeetarianism is the belief that when you die, your soul goes up on the roof and gets stuck. - George Carlin

NuPathz.com – Your affordable source for self improvement and self help books & materials

Illuminating the path for personal motivation, growth and development

SUCCESS = TAKING THE STEPS TO DO THE THINGS YOU WANT TO DO!

JUST GO FOR IT!

*****

Note: To view Gene’s Blogs posted before January 2012, just visit the “Articles” and “Odds ‘N Ends” sections of NuPathz at http://www.nupathz.com/

Download Free – James Allen’s “AS A MAN THINKETH” See below for info…

********

THE FARMER’S DONKEY

One day a farmer’s donkey fell down into a well. The animal cried piteously for hours as the farmer tried to figure out what to do.

Finally, he decided the animal was old, and the well needed to be covered up anyway; it just wasn’t worth it to retrieve the donkey.

He invited all his neighbors to come over and help him. They all grabbed a shovel and began to shovel dirt into the well. At first, the donkey realized what was happening and cried horribly. Then, to everyone’s amazement he quieted down.

A few shovel loads later, the farmer finally looked down the well. He was astonished at what he saw. With each shovel of dirt that hit his back, the donkey was doing something amazing.  He would shake it off and take a step up.

As the farmer’s neighbors continued to shovel dirt on top of the animal, he would shake it off and take a step up.

Pretty soon, everyone was amazed as the donkey stepped up over the edge of the well and happily trotted off!

Life is going to shovel dirt on you, all kinds of dirt. The trick to getting out of the well is to shake it off and take a step up. Each of our troubles is a steppingstone. We can get out of the deepest wells just by not stopping, never giving up! Shake it off and take a step up.

Remember the five simple rules to be happy:

Free your heart from hatred - Forgive.

Free your mind from worries - Most never happen.

Live simply and appreciate what you have.

Give more.

Expect less

NOW …………

Enough of that crap . . The donkey later came back and bit the farmer who had tried to bury him.

The gash from the bite got infected and the farmer eventually died in agony from septic shock.

MORAL FROM TODAY’S LESSON:

When you do something wrong and try to cover your ass, it always comes back to bite you.

Author Unknown

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One more lesson…

AN EXPLANATION OF LIFE

On the first day, God created the cow. God said, “You must go to the field with the farmer all day long and suffer under the sun and have calves to support the farmer. I will give you a life span of sixty years.”

The cow said, “That’s a kind of tough life.  You want me to live for sixty years but instead, let me have twenty-five and I will give back the other thirty five.”

And God agreed

On the second day, God created the monkey.  God said, “Entertain people, do tricks, make them laugh and I will give you a twenty year life span.

The monkey said, “How boring!  Monkey tricks for twenty years?  Give me ten years and I will give you back the other ten.”

So God agreed.

On the third day, God created the dog. God said, “Sit all day by the door of your house and bark at anyone who comes in or walks past.  I will give you a life span of twenty years.”

The dog said, “I do not think so. That is too long to be barking.  Monkey gave you back ten, so that’s what I will do, too.  Okay?”

And God agreed again.

On the fourth day, God created man.  God Said, “Eat, sleep, play, have sex and do nothing.  Just enjoy your life.  I’ll give you twenty-five years.”

Man said, “What?  Only twenty-five years?  No way!  Tell you what.  I’ll take my twenty-five… and the thirty-five the cow gave back and then the ten the monkey gave back and the ten the dog gave back.  That makes eighty.  OK?”

“OK” said God.  “You have a deal.”

So that is why the first twenty-five years we eat, sleep, play, have sex and do nothing.  The next thirty-five years, we slave in the sun to support our family.  The next ten years we do monkey tricks to entertain our grandchildren and the last ten years we sit on the front porch and bark at everyone…

So now you know…

Author Unknown

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And remember to take some time out every day just for you, to count your blessings, hug your loved ones and enjoy life’s wonders.  I hope you have a really great day!

**DON’T MISS THE WRAP-UP “THOUGHT FOR THE DAY”!!!

ARE YOU READY FOR A CHANGE?  Then be sure to check out the rest of our stuff (books, thoughts, quotations, links, articles, Words of Wisdom, Odds ‘N Ends, and much, much more) on our main site at:  http://www.nupathz.com/   We have over 1000 pages of everything from videos, jokes, useless facts, bumper stickers and silly signs to humorous stories, off-the-wall thoughts and plenty of terrific articles to help you with your self improvement and personal growth efforts! 

SAVE!!!  DOWNLOAD ANY BOOK FOR LESS THAN TWO DOLLARS!

FREE 15 page previews on all books!  Check ‘em out…

**Book Links updated & actually work now!  Amazing…

Also – Select Titles are now available through the Apple iBookstore. See Below…

Change Your Thoughts – Change Your Life!

FREE DOWNLOAD – James Allen’s “As A Man Thinketh”

Originally published in 1902, it’s the book that has provided the foundation for many of today’s self improvement and personal growth programs.  Read the original book that has helped millions of people find their way to a better, more enjoyable life.

Available from Nupathz.com at http://www.nupathz.com/Free_E-Books.htm

HAVE YOU EVER WONDERED why we are who we are – or why we’re even on this old planet in the first place?  Check out the possibilities in “WHAT AM I DOING HERE?” by Gene Simmons.  Just go to:   http://www.lulu.com/spotlight/genenupathz  - or to the “Books” section of NuPathz.com at http://www.nupathz.com/newlit1.htm 

* ” WHAT AM I DOING HERE?” is ALSO AVAILABLE through any major book retailer…

ISBN 1-4116-4824-2

Note: This title is also available from the Apple iBookstore and may be downloaded directly to your iPhone®, iPad®, or iPod touch® using the iBook app.

MORE ABOUT “WHAT AM I DOING HERE?”

There are a lot of unanswered questions in this old world.  Many are related to our religious or spiritual beliefs including - “What Am I Doing Here?”  From our present perspective as humans wandering this old planet, it’s highly unlikely that any of us will ever know with any degree of certainty.  That in and of itself may be an absolutely intentional element in the design of this marvelous system in which we find ourselves.  However, just because an answer may be elusive doesn’t mean that it’s not worth pursuing.  It can be especially beneficial because by asking the more difficult questions, we are given the opportunity to step outside of our comfort zone to look beyond those concepts and ways of thinking that have become so very comfortable for us.  This in turn then, enables us to grow and mature both as individuals and collectively as a society.

For a Quick Preview, click http://www.lulu.com/browse/preview.php?fCID=109475

OTHER BOOKS by Gene Simmons:

“Is This as Good as it Gets?”

ISBN 1-4116-4415-8

“Up Close and Personal”  (Also see note below…)

ISBN 1-4116-5179-0

“Just Between Us Critters”  (Also see note below…)

ISBN 1-4116-6176-1

“Just Go For It!”

ISBN 1-4116-7577-0

“A Short Spiritual Journey”  (Also see note below…)

ISBN 1-4116-8567-9

***FOR MORE INFORMATION on all books, just go to http://www.nupathz.com/newlit1.htm 

SAVE!!!  DOWNLOAD ANY BOOK FOR LESS THAN TWO DOLLARS!

FREE 15 page previews on all books!  Check ‘em out…

Note: These titles are also available from the Apple iBookstore and may be downloaded directly to your iPhone®, iPad®, or iPod touch® using the iBook app.  Available in EPub format for most other eBook Readers.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY

Time is an illusion. Lunchtime doubly so. - Douglas Adams

NuPathz.com – Your affordable source for self improvement and self help books & materials

Illuminating the path for personal motivation, growth and development

SUCCESS = TAKING THE STEPS TO DO THE THINGS YOU WANT TO DO!

JUST GO FOR IT!

*****

Note: To view Gene’s Blogs posted before January 2012, just visit the “Articles” and “Odds ‘N Ends” sections of NuPathz at http://www.nupathz.com/

Download Free – James Allen’s “AS A MAN THINKETH” See below for info…

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*Some things are just worth sharing in their entirety…

17 Rules to Live By
From “A Better Way to Live” by Og Mandino

Count your blessings. Once you realize how valuable you are and how much you have going for you, the smiles will return, the sun will break out, the music will play and you will finally be able to move forward toward the life that God intended for you…with grace, strength, courage and confidence.

Today, and every day, deliver more than you are getting paid to do. The victory of success will be half won when you learn the secret of putting out more than is expected in all that you do. Make yourself so valuable in your work that eventually you will become indispensable. Exercise your privilege to go the extra miles, and enjoy all the rewards you receive. You deserve them!

Whenever you make a mistake or get knocked down by life, don’t look back at it too long. Mistakes are life’s way of teaching you. Your capacity for occasional blunders is inseparable from your capacity to reach your goals. No one wins them all, and your failures, when they happen, are just part of your growth. Shake off your blunders. How will you know your limits without an occasional failure? Never quit. Your turn will come.

Always reward your long hours of labor and toil in the very best way, surrounded by your family. Nurture their love carefully, remembering that your children need models, not critics, and your own progress will hasten when you constantly strive to present your best side to your children. And even if you have failed at all else in the eyes of the world, if you have a loving family, you are a success.

Build this day on a foundation of pleasant thoughts. Never fret at any imperfections that you fear may impede your progress. Remind yourself, as often as necessary, that you are a creature of God and have the power to achieve any dream by lifting up your thoughts. You can fly when you decide that you can. Never consider defeat again. Let the vision in your heart be in your life’s blueprint. Smile!

Let your actions always speak for you, but be forever on guard against the terrible traps of false pride and conceit that can halt your progress. The next time you are tempted to boast, just place your fist in a full pail of water, and when you remove it, the hole remaining will give you a correct measure of your importance.

Each day is a special gift from God, and while life may not always be fair, you must never allow the pains, hurdles, and handicaps of the moment to poison your attitude and plans for yourself and your future. You can never win when you wear the ugly cloak of self-pity, and the sour sound of whining will certainly frighten away any opportunity for success. Never again. There is a better way.

Never again clutter your days or nights with so many menial and unimportant things that you have no time to accept a real challenge when it comes along. This applies to play as well as work. A day merely survived is no cause for celebration. You are not here to fritter away your precious hours when you have the ability to accomplish so much by making a slight change in your routine. No more busywork. No more hiding from success. Leave time, leave space, to grow. Now. Now! Not tomorrow!

Live this day as if it will be your last. Remember that you will only find “tomorrow” on the calendars of fools. Forget yesterday’s defeats, and ignore the problems of tomorrow. This is it. Doomsday. All you have. Make it the best day of your year. The saddest words you can ever utter are, “If I had my life to live over again…” Take the baton, now. Run with it! This is your day!

Beginning today, treat everyone you meet, friend or foe, loved one or stranger, as if they were going to be dead at midnight. Extend to each person, no matter how trivial the contact, all the care and kindness and understanding and love that you can muster, and do it with no thought of any reward. Your life will never be the same again.

Laugh at yourself and at life. Not in the spirit of derision or whining self-pity, but as a remedy, a miracle drug, that will ease your pain, cure your depression, and help you to put in perspective that seemingly terrible defeat of the moment. Banish tension and concern and worry with laughter at your predicaments, thus freeing your mind to think clearly toward the solution that is certain to come. Never take yourself too seriously.

Never neglect the little things. Never skimp on that extra effort, that additional few minutes, that soft word of praise or thanks, that delivery of the very best that you can do. It does not matter what others think, it is of prime importance, however, what you think about you. You can never do your best, which should always be your trademark, if you are cutting corners and shirking responsibilities. You are special. Act it. Never neglect the little things.

Welcome every morning with a smile. Look on the new day as another special gift from your Creator, another golden opportunity to complete what you were unable to finish yesterday. Be a self-starter. Let your first hour set the theme of success and positive action that is certain to echo through your entire day. Today will never happen again. Don’t waste it with a false start or no start at all. You were not born to fail.

You will achieve your grand dream, a day at a time, so set goals for each day-not long and difficult projects, but chores that will take you, step by step, toward your rainbow. Write them down, if you must, but limit your list so that you won’t have to drag today’s undone matters into tomorrow. Remember that you cannot build your pyramid in twenty-four hours. Be patient. Never allow your day to become so cluttered that you neglect your most important goal-to do the best you can, enjoy this day and rest satisfied with what you have accomplished.

Never allow anyone to rain on your parade and thus cast a pall of gloom and defeat on the entire day. Remember that no talent, no self-denial, no brains, no character, are required to set up in the fault-finding business. Nothing external can have any power over you unless you permit it. Your time is too precious to be sacrificed in wasted days combating the menial forces of hate, jealousy and envy. Guard your fragile life carefully. Only God can shape a flower, but any foolish child can pull it to pieces.

Search for the seed of good in every adversity. Master that principle and you will own a precious shield that will guard you well through all the darkest valleys you must traverse. Stars may be seen from the bottom of a deep well, when they cannot be discerned from the mountaintop. So will you learn things in adversity that you would never have discovered without trouble. There is always a seed of good. Find it and prosper.

Realize that true happiness lies within you. Waste no time and effort searching for peace and contentment and joy in the world outside. Remember that there is no happiness in having or in getting, but only in giving. Reach out. Share. Smile. Hug. Happiness is a perfume you cannot pour on others without getting a few drops on yourself.

— From “A Better Way to Live” by Og Mandino

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And remember to take some time out every day just for you, to count your blessings, hug your loved ones and enjoy life’s wonders.  I hope you have a really great day!

**DON’T MISS THE WRAP-UP “THOUGHT FOR THE DAY”!!!

ARE YOU READY FOR A CHANGE?  Then be sure to check out the rest of our stuff (books, thoughts, quotations, links, articles, Words of Wisdom, Odds ‘N Ends, and much, much more) on our main site at:  http://www.nupathz.com/   We have over 1000 pages of everything from videos, jokes, useless facts, bumper stickers and silly signs to humorous stories, off-the-wall thoughts and plenty of terrific articles to help you with your self improvement and personal growth efforts! 

SAVE!!!  DOWNLOAD ANY BOOK FOR LESS THAN TWO DOLLARS!

FREE 15 page previews on all books!  Check ‘em out…

Also – Select Titles are now available through the Apple iBookstore. See Below…

Change Your Thoughts – Change Your Life!

FREE DOWNLOAD – James Allen’s “As A Man Thinketh”

Originally published in 1902, it’s the book that has provided the foundation for many of today’s self improvement and personal growth programs.  Read the original book that has helped millions of people find their way to a better, more enjoyable life.

Available from Nupathz.com at http://www.nupathz.com/Free_E-Books.htm

IS THIS REALLY the life we were intended to experience?  ARE YOU LOOKING for a simple approach a better life?  Then you’ll want to read “IS THIS AS GOOD AS IT GETS?” by Gene Simmons.  Just go to http://www.lulu.com/spotlight/genenupathz   - or to the “Books” section of NuPathz.com at http://www.nupathz.com/newlit1.htm 

*”IS THIS AS GOOD AS IT GETS?” is ALSO AVAILABLE through any major book retailer…

ISBN 1-4116-4415-8

MORE ABOUT “IS THIS AS GOOD AS IT GETS?”

There are many of us who don’t have the time - nor the inclination - to spend hours trying to pick a few bits of useful information from a self-help or personal growth book.  In one or two short sittings, “Is This As Good As It Gets?” will provide a solid foundation for building a better, more enjoyable life.  (It’s also great as a quick-reference motivator for those times we get bogged down by the “yucky stuff” of life!)  I’ve been using the concepts I’ve presented in this book for well over twenty years.  I assure you from my experience - they work!

For a Quick Preview, click http://www.lulu.com/browse/preview.php?fCID=108956

OTHER BOOKS by Gene Simmons:

“What Am I Doing Here?”  (Also see note below…)

ISBN 1-4116-4824-2

“Up Close and Personal”  (Also see note below…)

ISBN 1-4116-5179-0

“Just Between Us Critters”  (Also see note below…)

ISBN 1-4116-6176-1

“Just Go For It!”

ISBN 1-4116-7577-0

“A Short Spiritual Journey”  (Also see note below…)

ISBN 1-4116-8567-9

***FOR MORE INFORMATION on all books, just go to http://www.nupathz.com/newlit1.htm 

SAVE!!!  DOWNLOAD ANY BOOK FOR LESS THAN TWO DOLLARS!

FREE 15 page previews on all books!  Check ‘em out…

Note: These titles are also available from the Apple iBookstore and may be downloaded directly to your iPhone®, iPad®, or iPod touch® using the iBook app.  Available in EPub format for most other eBook Readers.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY

A good head and a good heart are always a formidable combination. - Nelson Mandela

NuPathz.com – Your affordable source for self improvement and self help books & materials

Illuminating the path for personal motivation, growth and development

SUCCESS = TAKING THE STEPS TO DO THE THINGS YOU WANT TO DO!

JUST GO FOR IT!

*****

Note: To view Gene’s Blogs posted before January 2012, just visit the “Articles” and “Odds ‘N Ends” sections of NuPathz at http://www.nupathz.com/

Download Free – James Allen’s “AS A MAN THINKETH” See below for info…

********

WHATEVER…

I don’t really know if this is a word that is used a lot any more by teenagers even though I have been the recipient of the term on a couple of occasions when my granddaughter wasn’t especially pleased with the instructions I had given her.  The thing that brings “whatever” to mind right now is the African Gray parrot that is sitting on the door of her cage about six feet from me.  Yep, that’s what she’s saying… “Whatever…” – preen, preen – “Whatever…” - scratch, preen – “Whatever…”

Oh, she says a lot of other things, too and is especially skilled at duplicating certain sounds such as “good belch” and “bad gas”.  Hey, I’ve never claimed that she wasn’t totally tacky at times.  Wonder how she learned that stuff?  Certainly not from me…

Back to “whatever”.  I suppose I’ll have to take at least part of the responsibility for that one because I do use the word periodically.  Oh, not in a snide, sarcastic way.  More in the sense of, “Well, that’s OK and if that’s the way it’s to be, we can work with it”.  I guess it comes under the heading of flexibility.  I’ve found in the years that I’ve trod this good planet, that many of the things we experience are beyond our control.  Oh sure, we can have a lot of influence over what happens in our lives and in truth, the amount of effort we expend in building these influences will almost certainly determine how successful we are in reaching our goals.  But control is a different story entirely.

That’s why I’m really partial to the “whatever” word.  If situations develop that mesh with my desires or objectives – great!  If they don’t… well, “whatever”.  I’ll come up with a way to work it out.  If people act or respond in ways that are in line with my moods or thought patterns – great!  If they don’t… well, “whatever”.  If the car keeps running, the traffic flows smoothly, the weather is mild, the lines are short, the fish are biting, my favorite team wins, the steak is tender, the movie is enjoyable, the news is good and the conversation stimulating – great!  If not… well, “whatever”.

It’s good to sometimes just go with the flow – to be able to flex with the situations that develop in our lives.  It helps make life just a little easier.  And the noisy bird who has now launched full force into her repertoire of sound effects?  “Whatever…”

***********************

And remember to take some time out every day just for you, to count your blessings, hug your loved ones and enjoy life’s wonders.  I hope you have a really great day!

**DON’T MISS THE WRAP-UP “THOUGHT FOR THE DAY”!!!

ARE YOU READY FOR A CHANGE?  Then be sure to check out the rest of our stuff (books, thoughts, quotations, links, articles, Words of Wisdom, Odds ‘N Ends, and much, much more) on our main site at:  http://www.nupathz.com/   We have over 1000 pages of everything from videos, jokes, useless facts, bumper stickers and silly signs to humorous stories, off-the-wall thoughts and plenty of terrific articles to help you with your self improvement and personal growth efforts! 

SAVE!!!  DOWNLOAD ANY BOOK FOR LESS THAN TWO DOLLARS!

FREE 15 page previews on all books!  Check ‘em out…

Also – Select Titles are now available through the Apple iBookstore and in EPub format. See Below…

Change Your Thoughts – Change Your Life!

FREE DOWNLOAD – James Allen’s “As A Man Thinketh”

Originally published in 1902, it’s the book that has provided the foundation for many of today’s self improvement and personal growth programs.  Read the original book that has helped millions of people find their way to a better, more enjoyable life.

Available from Nupathz.com at http://www.nupathz.com/Free_E-Books.htm

IS THIS REALLY the life we were intended to experience?  ARE YOU LOOKING for a simple approach a better life?  Then you’ll want to read “IS THIS AS GOOD AS IT GETS?” by Gene Simmons.  Just go to http://www.lulu.com/spotlight/genenupathz   - or to the “Books” section of NuPathz.com at http://www.nupathz.com/newlit1.htm 

*”IS THIS AS GOOD AS IT GETS?” is ALSO AVAILABLE through any major book retailer…

ISBN 1-4116-4415-8

MORE ABOUT “IS THIS AS GOOD AS IT GETS?”

There are many of us who don’t have the time - nor the inclination - to spend hours trying to pick a few bits of useful information from a self-help or personal growth book.  In one or two short sittings, “Is This As Good As It Gets?” will provide a solid foundation for building a better, more enjoyable life.  (It’s also great as a quick-reference motivator for those times we get bogged down by the “yucky stuff” of life!)  I’ve been using the concepts I’ve presented in this book for well over twenty years.  I assure you from my experience - they work!

For a Quick Preview, click http://www.lulu.com/browse/preview.php?fCID=108956

OTHER BOOKS by Gene Simmons:

“Is This as Good as it Gets?”

ISBN 1-4116-4415-8

“What Am I Doing Here?”  (Also see note below…)

ISBN 1-4116-4824-2

“Up Close and Personal”  (Also see note below…)

ISBN 1-4116-5179-0

“Just Between Us Critters”  (Also see note below…)

ISBN 1-4116-6176-1

“Just Go For It!”

ISBN 1-4116-7577-0

“A Short Spiritual Journey”  (Also see note below…)

ISBN 1-4116-8567-9

***FOR MORE INFORMATION on all books, just go to http://www.nupathz.com/newlit1.htm 

SAVE!!!  DOWNLOAD ANY BOOK FOR LESS THAN TWO DOLLARS!

FREE 15 page previews on all books!  Check ‘em out…

Note: These titles are also available from the Apple iBookstore and may be downloaded directly to your iPhone®, iPad®, or iPod touch® using the iBook app. Available in EPub format for most other eBook Readers.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY

Getting caught is the mother of invention. - Robert Byrne

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I frequently like to think about where I am in my life and the things I’ve done – and the things I would still like to accomplish in whatever time I have left here on this old planet.  A few mornings ago (I like to do this kind of thing in the morning with a big, hot cup of coffee) the question popped into my head, “What should I focus on next?”  Now I’ve been at this personal growth stuff long enough to know that it’s not particularly easy to conduct an honest self-evaluation.  The information has a tendency to get skewed because of our already built-in mental programming or filters.  Then I remembered a technique that can usually help point us in the right direction.  It’s one simple question.  “What’s your trigger?”  What do other people do or say that is bothersome to you – or even pisses you off completely?  What hits your hot button?

In less than three seconds, I had my answer.  My trigger is people making statements about a situation, event or concept which they present as 100 percent fact even though it is “obvious” they don’t know what they are talking about.  Hmmm, it looks like there is a whole bunch of information – for me especially – in that sentence, doesn’t it?

Part one:  Some time ago, a good friend – and boss – made the following observation.  “Sometimes when people don’t know what they’re talking about – it shows!”  Even though at the time he was referring to a co-worker, I also think it was a nice way for him to pass on a tidbit of important information to me too.  And he was absolutely right.  It can be a huge mistake to pass on erroneous information to any person or group of people who just may know more about the subject than we do.  Occasionally we do this simply because we really think we have all the pertinent information about a topic.  Once in a while though, we wind up “shooting from the hip” for one reason or another - and yes, often it is because our logic processes have provided us with what we feel is an accurate assumption.  At times, we can even become so damned cock-sure that our opinions are correct that nothing – absolutely nothing – any other person says or does will change our mind.  We’re right and that’s all there is to it!

Occasionally, we do it just so we can feel included – a contributing member of a group who is capable of conversing intelligently on the current subject.  “If you can’t dazzle them with brilliance, baffle them with bullshit.”  Yeah, there are also times when we tend to manipulate the information a bit so we can promote our own personal agenda and prompt our own desired outcome to a situation.

Sometimes we succeed in our efforts.  Sometimes we don’t.  The main variable in this of course, is that we never know who might be around that really will know more than we do about something.  Sort of puts this in the category of verbal Russian roulette, doesn’t it?

Part two:  Here’s where it gets downright personal.  I learned some time ago – or thought I did anyway – that the more information I’ve absorbed over the years, the dumber I’ve gotten.  It’s not that a whole bunch of the stuff that I thought I knew was completely incorrect.  It’s just that I’ve come to realize there’s always more to know, more to think about related to any given subject.  Details that I may not be aware of.  Other possibilities to consider.  What I write in my blogs and articles is only what I think I know right now.  It could be different tomorrow.

It’s good to be aware of this, right?  So why the hell then, when I’m talking with a family member about a particular subject, do I act as though I’m the world’s leading authority on this topic?  I become the resident friggin’ expert – as I shoot from the hip and sort of think there’s a reasonable level of accuracy in what I’m saying but have no way to prove any of it.  Nah, I don’t use this approach all the time.  Just often enough to be annoying to the both of us involved in the conversation.

Maybe I’m trying too hard to assume a leadership role.  Maybe I think that by being the perceived “authority” I can gain more respect (which of course, is so well deserved considering my vast accumulation of knowledge and abundance of wisdom).  Or maybe I’m just being a butt-head.  That’s probably more likely the case, huh?

Anyway, it’s something I need to work on.  I need to remember that when I express an opinion, it would be best if I specifically say “This is just my opinion…” – or “I’m not 100 percent certain about this, but it looks as though….”  Or maybe even “Beats the shit outta me – but here’s a possibility…”  I think this approach would make life a little easier for all of us.

So it looks like I have my next self improvement project all laid out.  What about you?  Just check your triggers…

Update:  I actually followed my own advice since writing this a few years ago and am doing much better in this area now.  Amazing how well some of these self improvement concepts can work!  (Manipulation of “facts” by politicians still bugs the crap outta me though…)

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And remember to take some time out every day just for you, to count your blessings, hug your loved ones and enjoy life’s wonders.  I hope you have a really great day!

**DON’T MISS THE WRAP-UP “THOUGHT FOR THE DAY”!!!

ARE YOU READY FOR A CHANGE?  Then be sure to check out the rest of our stuff (books, thoughts, quotations, links, articles, Words of Wisdom, Odds ‘N Ends, and much, much more) on our main site at:  http://www.nupathz.com/   We have over 1000 pages of everything from videos, jokes, useless facts, bumper stickers and silly signs to humorous stories, off-the-wall thoughts and plenty of terrific articles to help you with your self improvement and personal growth efforts! 

SAVE!!!  DOWNLOAD ANY BOOK FOR LESS THAN TWO DOLLARS!

FREE 15 page previews on all books!  Check ‘em out…

Also – Select Titles are now available through the Apple iBookstore and in EPub format. See Below…

Change Your Thoughts – Change Your Life!

FREE DOWNLOAD – James Allen’s “As A Man Thinketh”

Originally published in 1902, it’s the book that has provided the foundation for many of today’s self improvement and personal growth programs.  Read the original book that has helped millions of people find their way to a better, more enjoyable life.

Available from Nupathz.com at http://www.nupathz.com/Free_E-Books.htm

IS THIS REALLY the life we were intended to experience?  ARE YOU LOOKING for a simple approach a better life?  Then you’ll want to read “IS THIS AS GOOD AS IT GETS?” by Gene Simmons.  Just go to http://www.lulu.com/spotlight/genenupathz   - or to the “Books” section of NuPathz.com at http://www.nupathz.com/newlit1.htm 

*”IS THIS AS GOOD AS IT GETS?” is ALSO AVAILABLE through any major book retailer…

ISBN 1-4116-4415-8

MORE ABOUT “IS THIS AS GOOD AS IT GETS?”

There are many of us who don’t have the time - nor the inclination - to spend hours trying to pick a few bits of useful information from a self-help or personal growth book.  In one or two short sittings, “Is This As Good As It Gets?” will provide a solid foundation for building a better, more enjoyable life.  (It’s also great as a quick-reference motivator for those times we get bogged down by the “yucky stuff” of life!)  I’ve been using the concepts I’ve presented in this book for well over twenty years.  I assure you from my experience - they work!

For a Quick Preview, click http://www.lulu.com/browse/preview.php?fCID=108956

OTHER BOOKS by Gene Simmons:

“What Am I Doing Here?”  (Also see note below…)

ISBN 1-4116-4824-2

“Up Close and Personal”  (Also see note below…)

ISBN 1-4116-5179-0

“Just Between Us Critters”  (Also see note below…)

ISBN 1-4116-6176-1

“Just Go For It!”

ISBN 1-4116-7577-0

“A Short Spiritual Journey”  (Also see note below…)

ISBN 1-4116-8567-9

***FOR MORE INFORMATION on all books, just go to http://www.nupathz.com/newlit1.htm 

SAVE!!!  DOWNLOAD ANY BOOK FOR LESS THAN TWO DOLLARS!

FREE 15 page previews on all books!  Check ‘em out…

Note: These titles are also available from the Apple iBookstore and may be downloaded directly to your iPhone®, iPad®, or iPod touch® using the iBook app. Available in EPub format for most other eBook Readers.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY

Nature gave us one tongue and two ears so we could hear twice as much as we speak. – Epictetus

NuPathz.com – Your affordable source for self improvement and self help books & materials

Illuminating the path for personal motivation, growth and development

*****

Note: To view Gene’s Blogs posted before January 2011, just visit the “Articles” and “Odds ‘N Ends” sections of NuPathz at http://www.nupathz.com/

Download Free – James Allen’s “AS A MAN THINKETH” See below for info…

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That’s it!  I’ve had it!  Here I am bustin’ my hump and all I get is busted in the chops!  Enough awready!  I’m sick and tired of trying to get anything to go my way.  From now on, I’m just going to get up, do my thing and whatever happens – happens!  To hell with it!

Yep, it does happen, doesn’t it?  To just about everybody I would imagine.  We reach a point where nothing seems to be going the way we’d like it to no matter how hard we try.  It’s like banging our head against a brick wall.  It’s not accomplishing a danged thing and it’s starting to really hurt.

So what’s the most logical thing to do next?  Let’s see.  If banging our heads against a wall is giving us a headache… well dang, why don’t we just stop doing that?  ‘Cause it sure as heck ain’t workin’!

Yeah, I know.  We keep hearing the same story over and over.  Set your goals and make your plans so you know what you need to do to reach those goals.  Then get your butt in gear and do stuff.  Keep doing stuff!  Never give up!  Persistence counts!  Go – go – go!  Rah – rah – rah!  Well rah-rah my rump!  There must be a better way…

Ya know, there just might be – a better way, that is.  Sure, setting goals, planning and doing stuff is a good way to move our lives toward a better future.  However, sometimes we get so over-focused on having everything happen “our way” that we lose sight of the possibility that there may be an even “better way” out there waiting for us.  And it might honestly be a way that will take us to a far better future than we could ever have possible imagined for ourselves.

So here’s a suggestion.  If you’re getting tired of banging your head against the wall, just stop doing it and back off for awhile.  No, I don’t mean stop everything and sit down and cry or over-imbibe in a potent liquid.  I mean just back off.  Sure, keep doing stuff but do it with more of a “whatever” attitude.  Be willing to take a closer look at whatever comes your way.  Loosen your grasp on those precious goals a bit.  And if what you’re doing doesn’t feel quite right, do something a little – or completely – different.  See what happens.  Then do more stuff.  See what happens.

At this point in my life, I’m fairly well convinced that none of us has anywhere near the level of control over our future that we think we may have.  That there’s more to this existence than always “having it our way”.   This might work with hamburgers but life is a completely different story.  I think we’re better off sometimes to stop holding the reins so tightly and just let our horses go where they want to go.  I remember from my youth that a good team of horses will always find its way back to their barn.  So why not try it?  Loosen up on the reins for just a little while.  Let your “horses” take you where they want to go.  It might be interesting to find out what their barn looks like, don’tcha think?

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And remember to take some time out every day just for you, to count your blessings, hug your loved ones and enjoy life’s wonders.  I hope you have a really great day!

**DON’T MISS THE WRAP-UP “THOUGHT FOR THE DAY”!!!

ARE YOU READY FOR A CHANGE?  Then be sure to check out the rest of our stuff (books, thoughts, quotations, links, articles, Words of Wisdom, Odds ‘N Ends, and much, much more) on our main site at:  http://www.nupathz.com/   We have over 1000 pages of everything from videos, jokes, useless facts, bumper stickers and silly signs to humorous stories, off-the-wall thoughts and plenty of terrific articles to help you with your self improvement and personal growth efforts! 

SAVE!!!  DOWNLOAD ANY BOOK FOR LESS THAN TWO DOLLARS!

FREE 15 page previews on all books!  Check ‘em out…

Also – Select Titles are now available through the Apple iBookstore. See Below…

Change Your Thoughts – Change Your Life!

FREE DOWNLOAD – James Allen’s “As A Man Thinketh”

Originally published in 1902, it’s the book that has provided the foundation for many of today’s self improvement and personal growth programs.  Read the original book that has helped millions of people find their way to a better, more enjoyable life.

Available from Nupathz.com at http://www.nupathz.com/Free_E-Books.htm

IS THIS REALLY the life we were intended to experience?  ARE YOU LOOKING for a simple approach a better life?  Then you’ll want to read “IS THIS AS GOOD AS IT GETS?” by Gene Simmons.  Just go to http://www.lulu.com/spotlight/genenupathz   - or to the “Books” section of NuPathz.com at http://www.nupathz.com/newlit1.htm 

*”IS THIS AS GOOD AS IT GETS?” is ALSO AVAILABLE through any major book retailer…

ISBN 1-4116-4415-8

MORE ABOUT “IS THIS AS GOOD AS IT GETS?”

There are many of us who don’t have the time - nor the inclination - to spend hours trying to pick a few bits of useful information from a self-help or personal growth book.  In one or two short sittings, “Is This As Good As It Gets?” will provide a solid foundation for building a better, more enjoyable life.  (It’s also great as a quick-reference motivator for those times we get bogged down by the “yucky stuff” of life!)  I’ve been using the concepts I’ve presented in this book for well over twenty years.  I assure you from my experience - they work!

For a Quick Preview, click http://www.lulu.com/browse/preview.php?fCID=108956

OTHER BOOKS by Gene Simmons:

“What Am I Doing Here?”  (Also see note below…)

ISBN 1-4116-4824-2

“Up Close and Personal”  (Also see note below…)

ISBN 1-4116-5179-0

“Just Between Us Critters”  (Also see note below…)

ISBN 1-4116-6176-1

“Just Go For It!”

ISBN 1-4116-7577-0

“A Short Spiritual Journey”  (Also see note below…)

ISBN 1-4116-8567-9

***FOR MORE INFORMATION on all books, just go to http://www.nupathz.com/newlit1.htm 

SAVE!!!  DOWNLOAD ANY BOOK FOR LESS THAN TWO DOLLARS!

FREE 15 page previews on all books!  Check ‘em out…

Note: These titles are also available from the Apple iBookstore and may be downloaded directly to your iPhone®, iPad®, or iPod touch® using the iBook app.  Available in EPub format for most other eBook Readers.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY

Life is what happens to you while you’re busy making other plans. - John Lennon

NuPathz.com – Your affordable source for self improvement and self help books & materials

Illuminating the path for personal motivation, growth and development

SUCCESS = TAKING THE STEPS TO DO THE THINGS YOU WANT TO DO!

JUST GO FOR IT!

*****

Note: To view Gene’s Blogs posted before January 2011, just visit the “Articles” and “Odds ‘N Ends” sections of NuPathz at http://www.nupathz.com/

Download Free – James Allen’s “AS A MAN THINKETH” See below for info…

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He is… she is…, they are…  Go ahead.  Complete the sentence.  Fill in the blank.  About anyone you know.  What words would you use?  Mean, grouchy, controlling, sneaky, nosey, conniving, kind, caring, funny, loving, giving, sexy…?

It’s not difficult to do, is it?  We can think about anyone we know and almost instantly assign at least one descriptive word – and usually several – to that individual.  We can categorize them.  And as a result, we are able to predict their actions, how their words and actions will affect us – and how we will continue to think and feel about who they are.

People are really predictable, aren’t they?  If someone has been mean to us, there is no doubt in our mind that they will continue on their mean streak.  If they’ve been kind and caring, we know that is the kind of person they are – and we know they will treat us well.

So what is one of the main determining factors that allows us to so easily assign labels or characteristics to another person?  What permits us to predict with a fair degree of accuracy how these other individuals will act and how they will treat us?

Us.

That’s right – us.  You and me.  Even though everyone else in the world is operating (functioning, performing, acting) with their own individual set of rules that determine their overall personality characteristics – and even peculiarities – our assigned “labels” and opinion of their character will be the primary influence on our relationship with them.

Here’s how it works.  Think of someone in your life with whom you have a somewhat strained or less than totally pleasant relationship.  Just for the sake of discussion here, we’ll call them “Butthead”.  Butthead is not a particularly fun person to be around.  He (or she) does and says things that bother us – that hurt our feelings or cause us to feel badly about ourselves or our situation.  Butthead has a history of living up to his or her name and we know – absolutely for certain, know – that he or she is not going to change and that our relationship and interactions with this person will not be pleasant.

We are one hundred percent correct in our assumptions.  And it’s commonly because our thoughts about – and our words and actions toward – this other person will tend to validate and reinforce their “butthead” status.

Simply… our perceptions (thoughts about and opinions) of another person create our reality.  If we honestly believe someone is a butthead, they are.  We will say things to them and treat them as though they are a butthead – because of course, we “know” they are.  We will interpret the things they say and do in such a way as to confirm that this person is indeed a butthead.  And honestly, it won’t make a heck of a lot of difference what they actually say or how they act, our mind will play its little trick and automatically file our observations in the “butthead” folder.

They can’t win.  Unless we experience a significant event – a mind-blowing, oh-my-God what was I thinking – situation with our personal butthead, things just ain’t agonna change.  And that’s a real shame.

And yes, I do realize that there are a bunch of folks in this world who, for one reason or another, are almost impossible to get along with.  They really do and say things that aren’t very nice.  I understand too, that sometimes it is difficult to tell the difference between these types of people and those who we have simply mislabeled because of own experiences with – and misperceptions of – them.

We should be aware too, that it is also possible for us to over-react on the positive side.  I’m sure you know of situations where someone has slathered a sugar coating all over another individual – and in reality, this other person was not really quite as nice as he or she was made out to be.

Relationships with others are not always as simple or as easy as we would like them to be.  There’s a good chance though, that they could be better if we would take a few minutes (or longer if necessary) to look at ourselves and the possible reasons we might have for thinking and feeling the way we do about the other person.  (The key here is “looking at ourselves” to identify possible reasons we might have developed prejudices or biases toward the other individual.)  With some honest introspection, we might just find that the other person is not really as “bad” as we have led ourselves to believe.

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And remember to take some time out every day just for you, to count your blessings, hug your loved ones and enjoy life’s wonders.  I hope you have a really great day!

**DON’T MISS THE WRAP-UP “THOUGHT FOR THE DAY”!!!

ARE YOU READY FOR A CHANGE?  Then be sure to check out the rest of our stuff (books, thoughts, quotations, links, articles, Words of Wisdom, Odds ‘N Ends, and much, much more) on our main site at:  http://www.nupathz.com/   We have over 1000 pages of everything from videos, jokes, useless facts, bumper stickers and silly signs to humorous stories, off-the-wall thoughts and plenty of terrific articles to help you with your self improvement and personal growth efforts! 

SAVE!!!  DOWNLOAD ANY BOOK FOR LESS THAN TWO DOLLARS!

FREE 15 page previews on all books!  Check ‘em out…

**Book Links updated & actually work now!  Amazing…

Also – Select Titles are now available through the Apple iBookstore and in EPub format. See Below…

Change Your Thoughts – Change Your Life!

FREE DOWNLOAD – James Allen’s “As A Man Thinketh”

Originally published in 1902, it’s the book that has provided the foundation for many of today’s self improvement and personal growth programs.  Read the original book that has helped millions of people find their way to a better, more enjoyable life.

Available from Nupathz.com at http://www.nupathz.com/Free_E-Books.htm

IS THIS REALLY the life we were intended to experience?  ARE YOU LOOKING for a simple approach a better life?  Then you’ll want to read “IS THIS AS GOOD AS IT GETS?” by Gene Simmons.  Just go to http://www.lulu.com/spotlight/genenupathz   - or to the “Books” section of NuPathz.com at http://www.nupathz.com/newlit1.htm 

*”IS THIS AS GOOD AS IT GETS?” is ALSO AVAILABLE through any major book retailer…

ISBN 1-4116-4415-8

MORE ABOUT “IS THIS AS GOOD AS IT GETS?”

There are many of us who don’t have the time - nor the inclination - to spend hours trying to pick a few bits of useful information from a self-help or personal growth book.  In one or two short sittings, “Is This As Good As It Gets?” will provide a solid foundation for building a better, more enjoyable life.  (It’s also great as a quick-reference motivator for those times we get bogged down by the “yucky stuff” of life!)  I’ve been using the concepts I’ve presented in this book for well over twenty years.  I assure you from my experience - they work!

For a Quick Preview, click http://www.lulu.com/browse/preview.php?fCID=108956

OTHER BOOKS by Gene Simmons:

“What Am I Doing Here?”  (Also see note below…)

ISBN 1-4116-4824-2

“Up Close and Personal”  (Also see note below…)

ISBN 1-4116-5179-0

“Just Between Us Critters”  (Also see note below…)

ISBN 1-4116-6176-1

“Just Go For It!”

ISBN 1-4116-7577-0

“A Short Spiritual Journey”  (Also see note below…)

ISBN 1-4116-8567-9

***FOR MORE INFORMATION on all books, just go to http://www.nupathz.com/newlit1.htm 

SAVE!!!  DOWNLOAD ANY BOOK FOR LESS THAN TWO DOLLARS!

FREE 15 page previews on all books!  Check ‘em out…

Note: These titles are also available from the Apple iBookstore and may be downloaded directly to your iPhone®, iPad®, or iPod touch® using the iBook app. Available in EPub format for most other eBook Readers.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY

Spread love everywhere you go: First of all in your own house… let no one ever come to you without leaving better and happier. Be the living expression of God’s kindness; kindness in your face, kindness in your eyes, kindness in your smile. - Mother Teresa

NuPathz.com – Your affordable source for self improvement and self help books & materials

Illuminating the path for personal motivation, growth and development

SUCCESS = TAKING THE STEPS TO DO THE THINGS YOU WANT TO DO!

JUST GO FOR IT!

*****

Note: To view Gene’s Blogs posted before January 2011, just visit the “Articles” and “Odds ‘N Ends” sections of NuPathz at http://www.nupathz.com/

Download Free – James Allen’s “AS A MAN THINKETH” See below for info…

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I received the following piece by e-mail a while back and thought it was well worth passing on.  Yes, it’s been around for more than a few years but unfortunately commonly without attribution to a source or author.  We’ll see what we can do to correct that…

THE OLD PHONE

When I was quite young, my father had one of the first telephones in our neighborhood. I remember the polished, old case fastened to the wall. The shiny receiver hung on the side of the box. I was too little to reach the telephone, but used to listen with fascination when my mother talked to it.

Then I discovered that somewhere inside the wonderful device lived an amazing person. Her name was “Information Please” and there was nothing she did not know. Information Please could supply anyone’s number and the correct time.

My personal experience with the genie-in-a-bottle came one day while my mother was visiting a neighbor. Amusing myself at the tool bench in the basement, I whacked my finger with a hammer, the pain was terrible, but there seemed no point in crying because there was no one home to give sympathy.

I walked around the house sucking my throbbing finger, finally arriving at the stairway. The telephone! Quickly, I ran for the footstool in the parlor and dragged it to the landing.  Climbing up, I unhooked the receiver in the parlor and held it to my ear. “Information, please” I said into the mouthpiece just above my head.  A click or two and a small clear voice spoke into my ear.

“Information.”

“I hurt my finger…” I wailed into the phone, the tears came readily enough now that I had an audience.

“Isn’t your mother home?” came the question.

“Nobody’s home but me,” I blubbered.

“Are you bleeding?” the voice asked.

“No,” I replied. “I hit my finger with the hammer and it hurts.”

“Can you open the icebox?” she asked.

I said I could.

“Then chip off a little bit of ice and hold it to your finger,” said the voice.

After that, I called “Information Please” for everything. I asked her for help with my geography, and she told me where Philadelphia was. She helped me with my math. She told me my pet chipmunk that I had caught in the park just the day before, would eat fruit and nuts.

Then, there was the time Petey, our pet canary, died. I called, Information Please, and told her the sad story. She listened, and then said things grown-ups say to soothe a child. But I was not consoled. I asked her, “Why is it that birds should sing so beautifully and bring joy to all families, only to end up as a heap of feathers on the bottom of a cage?”

She must have sensed my deep concern, for she said quietly, “Wayne always remember that there are other worlds to sing in.”

Somehow I felt better.

Another day I was on the telephone, “Information Please.”

“Information,” said in the now familiar voice. “How do I spell fix?” I asked.

All this took place in a small town in the Pacific Northwest. When I was nine years old, we moved across the country to Boston. I missed my friend very much. “Information Please” belonged in that old wooden box back home and I somehow never thought of trying the shiny new phone that sat on the table in the hall. As I grew into my teens, the memories of those childhood conversations never really left me.

Often, in moments of doubt and perplexity I would recall the serene sense of security I had then. I appreciated now how patient, understanding, and kind she was to have spent her time on a little boy.

A few years later, on my way west to college, my plane put down in Seattle.  I had about a half-hour or so between planes. I spent 15 minutes or so on the phone with my sister, who lived there now. Then without thinking what I was doing, I dialed my hometown Operator and said, “Information Please.”

Miraculously, I heard the small, clear voice I knew so well.

“Information.”

I hadn’t planned this, but I heard myself saying, “Could you please tell me how to spell fix?”

There was a long pause. Then came the soft spoken answer, “I guess your finger must have healed by now”

I laughed, “So it’s really you,” I said. “I wonder if you have any idea how much you meant to me during that time?”

I wonder,” she said, “if you know how much your call meant to me. I never had any children and I used to look forward to your calls.”

I told her how often I had thought of her over the years and I asked if I could call her again when I came back to visit my sister.

“Please do”, she said. “Just ask for Sally.”

Three months later I was back in Seattle. A different voice answered.

“Information.”

 I asked for Sally.

“Are you a friend?” she said.

“Yes, a very old friend,” I answered.

“I’m sorry to have to tell you this,” she said. “Sally had been working part-time the last few years because she was sick. She died five weeks ago.”

Before I could hang up she said, “Wait a minute, did you say your name was Wayne?”

“Yes.” I answered.

“Well, Sally left a message for you. She wrote it down in case you called.  Let me read it to you.”

The note said, “Tell him there are other worlds to sing in.  He’ll know what I mean.”

I thanked her and hung up. I knew what Sally meant.

According to “Snopes.com”, this piece by Paul Villiard was originally published in a slightly different version as “Information, Please” in the June, 1966 edition of Reader’s Digest.

http://www.snopes.com/glurge/infoplea.htm

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And remember to take some time out every day just for you, to count your blessings, hug your loved ones and enjoy life’s wonders.  I hope you have a really great day!

**DON’T MISS THE WRAP-UP “THOUGHT FOR THE DAY”!!!

ARE YOU READY FOR A CHANGE?  Then be sure to check out the rest of our stuff (books, thoughts, quotations, links, articles, Words of Wisdom, Odds ‘N Ends, and much, much more) on our main site at:  http://www.nupathz.com/   We have over 1000 pages of everything from videos, jokes, useless facts, bumper stickers and silly signs to humorous stories, off-the-wall thoughts and plenty of terrific articles to help you with your self improvement and personal growth efforts! 

SAVE!!!  DOWNLOAD ANY BOOK FOR LESS THAN TWO DOLLARS!

FREE 15 page previews on all books!  Check ‘em out…

**Book Links updated & actually work now!  Amazing…

Also – Select Titles are now available through the Apple iBookstore. See Below…

Change Your Thoughts – Change Your Life!

FREE DOWNLOAD – James Allen’s “As A Man Thinketh”

Originally published in 1902, it’s the book that has provided the foundation for many of today’s self improvement and personal growth programs.  Read the original book that has helped millions of people find their way to a better, more enjoyable life.

Available from Nupathz.com at http://www.nupathz.com/Free_E-Books.htm

HAVE YOU EVER WONDERED why we are who we are – or why we’re even on this old planet in the first place?  Check out the possibilities in “WHAT AM I DOING HERE?” by Gene Simmons.  Just go to:   http://www.lulu.com/spotlight/genenupathz  - or to the “Books” section of NuPathz.com at http://www.nupathz.com/newlit1.htm 

* ” WHAT AM I DOING HERE?” is ALSO AVAILABLE through any major book retailer…

ISBN 1-4116-4824-2

Note: This title is also available from the Apple iBookstore and may be downloaded directly to your iPhone®, iPad®, or iPod touch® using the iBook app.

MORE ABOUT “WHAT AM I DOING HERE?”

There are a lot of unanswered questions in this old world.  Many are related to our religious or spiritual beliefs including - “What Am I Doing Here?”  From our present perspective as humans wandering this old planet, it’s highly unlikely that any of us will ever know with any degree of certainty.  That in and of itself may be an absolutely intentional element in the design of this marvelous system in which we find ourselves.  However, just because an answer may be elusive doesn’t mean that it’s not worth pursuing.  It can be especially beneficial because by asking the more difficult questions, we are given the opportunity to step outside of our comfort zone to look beyond those concepts and ways of thinking that have become so very comfortable for us.  This in turn then, enables us to grow and mature both as individuals and collectively as a society.

For a Quick Preview, click http://www.lulu.com/browse/preview.php?fCID=109475

OTHER BOOKS by Gene Simmons:

“Is This as Good as it Gets?”

ISBN 1-4116-4415-8

“Up Close and Personal”  (Also see note below…)

ISBN 1-4116-5179-0

“Just Between Us Critters”  (Also see note below…)

ISBN 1-4116-6176-1

“Just Go For It!”

ISBN 1-4116-7577-0

“A Short Spiritual Journey”  (Also see note below…)

ISBN 1-4116-8567-9

***FOR MORE INFORMATION on all books, just go to http://www.nupathz.com/newlit1.htm 

SAVE!!!  DOWNLOAD ANY BOOK FOR LESS THAN TWO DOLLARS!

FREE 15 page previews on all books!  Check ‘em out…

Note: These titles are also available from the Apple iBookstore and may be downloaded directly to your iPhone®, iPad®, or iPod touch® using the iBook app.  Available in EPub format for most other eBook Readers.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY

There is a theory which states that if ever anybody discovers exactly what the Universe is for and why it is here, it will instantly disappear and be replaced by something even more bizarre and inexplicable. There is another theory which states that this has already happened. - Douglas Adams

NuPathz.com – Your affordable source for self improvement and self help books & materials

Illuminating the path for personal motivation, growth and development

SUCCESS = TAKING THE STEPS TO DO THE THINGS YOU WANT TO DO!

JUST GO FOR IT!

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Note: To view Gene’s Blogs posted before January 2011, just visit the “Articles” and “Odds ‘N Ends” sections of NuPathz at http://www.nupathz.com/

Download Free – James Allen’s “AS A MAN THINKETH” See below for info…

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THE NEW BOSS

A large company, feeling it was time for a shakeup, hired a new CEO. The new boss was determined to rid the company of all slackers. On a tour of the facilities, the CEO noticed a guy leaning on a wall. The room was full of workers and he wanted to let them know that he meant business.

He walked up to the guy leaning against the wall and asked, “How much money do you make a week?”

A little surprised, the young man looked at him and replied, “I make $400 a week. Why?”

The CEO then handed the guy $1,600 in cash and screamed, “Here’s four weeks’ pay, now GET OUT and don’t come back.”

Feeling pretty good about himself, the CEO looked around the room and asked, “Does anyone want to tell me what that goof-ball did here?”

From across the room came a voice,

“Pizza delivery guy from Domino’s.”

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A VISIT TO THE FORTUNE TELLER

During a recent publicity outing, Jennifer sneaked off to visit a fortune teller of some local repute. In a dark and hazy room, peering into a crystal ball, the mystic delivered grave news.

“There’s no easy way to say this, so I’ll just be blunt: Prepare yourself to be a widow. Your husband will die a violent and horrible death this year.”

Visibly shaken, Jennifer stared at the woman’s lined face, then at the single flickering candle, then down at her hands. She took a few deep breaths to compose herself. She simply had to know.

She met the fortune teller’s gaze, steadied her voice, and asked her question.

“Will I be acquitted?

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THREE MISCHIEVOUS GRANDMAS

Three old mischievous Grandmas were sitting on a bench outside a nursing home. About then an old Grandpa walked by, and one of the old Grandma’s yelled out saying, “We bet we can tell exactly how old you are.”

The old man said, “There ain’t no way you can guess it, you old fools.”

One of the old Grandmas said, “Sure we can! Just drop your under shorts and we can tell your exact age.”

Embarrassed just a little, he dropped his drawers. The Grandmas asked him to turn around a couple of times, asked him to jump up and down for a little while and then they all piped up and said, “You’re 84 years old!”

“How in the world did you guess?”

The old Grandmas snickered and laughed. Slapping their knees and grinning from ear to ear, all three happily yelled in unison, “Because we were at your birthday party yesterday.”

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10-YEAR-OLD BLUES

A father asked his 10-year old son if he knew about the birds and the bees.

“I don’t want to know,” the child said, bursting into tears.  “Promise me you won’t tell me.”

Confused, the father asked what was wrong.

The boy sobbed, “When I was six, I got the ‘There’s no Easter Bunny’ speech.
At seven, I got the ‘There’s no Tooth Fairy’ speech.

When I was eight, you hit me with the ‘There’s no Santa’ speech.

If you’re going to tell me that grown-ups don’t really get laid, I’ll have nothing left to live for.”

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And remember to take some time out every day just for you, to count your blessings, hug your loved ones and enjoy life’s wonders.  I hope you have a really great day!

**DON’T MISS THE WRAP-UP “THOUGHT FOR THE DAY”!!!

ARE YOU READY FOR A CHANGE?  Then be sure to check out the rest of our stuff (books, thoughts, quotations, links, articles, Words of Wisdom, Odds ‘N Ends, and much, much more) on our main site at:  http://www.nupathz.com/   We have over 1000 pages of everything from videos, jokes, useless facts, bumper stickers and silly signs to humorous stories, off-the-wall thoughts and plenty of terrific articles to help you with your self improvement and personal growth efforts! 

SAVE!!!  DOWNLOAD ANY BOOK FOR LESS THAN TWO DOLLARS!

FREE 15 page previews on all books!  Check ‘em out…

Also – Select Titles are now available through the Apple iBookstore. See Below…

Change Your Thoughts – Change Your Life!

FREE DOWNLOAD – James Allen’s “As A Man Thinketh”

Originally published in 1902, it’s the book that has provided the foundation for many of today’s self improvement and personal growth programs.  Read the original book that has helped millions of people find their way to a better, more enjoyable life.

Available from Nupathz.com at http://www.nupathz.com/Free_E-Books.htm

SEX AND VIOLENCE, WARS AND CONFLICTS!  Think our lives are not heavily influenced by our basic animal instincts?  Think again as you read through “JUST BETWEEN US CRITTERS” by Gene Simmons. It’s available at: http://www.lulu.com/spotlight/genenupathz   - and through the “Books” section of NuPathz.com at http://www.nupathz.cvom/newlit1.htm  

* ”JUST BETWEEN US CRITTERS” is ALSO AVAILABLE through any major book retailer…

ISBN 1-4116-6176-1

Note: This title is also available from the Apple iBookstore and may be downloaded directly to your iPhone®, iPad®, or iPod touch® using the iBook app.

MORE ABOUT “JUST BETWEEN US CRITTERS”

We are animals – mammals to be just a bit more specific.  As a result, we arrive here on earth with essentially the same instincts for survival and procreation as every other animal.  Whether we want to admit it or not, these instincts are frequently the driving force behind many of the things we do.  Sometimes they serve us well by prompting us to make good decisions related to our well-being.  If we’re not careful however, they might just drag us right into our very own alligator-infested swamp.  “Just Between Us Critters” highlights how our instincts – whether we like it or not - can produce everything from international conflicts to corporate scandals and troublesome sexual adventures.

 For a Quick Preview, click http://www.lulu.com/browse/preview.php?fCID=119028

OTHER BOOKS by Gene Simmons:

“Is This as Good as it Gets?”

ISBN 1-4116-4415-8

“What Am I Doing Here?”  (Also see note below…)

ISBN 1-4116-4824-2

“Up Close and Personal”  (Also see note below…)

ISBN 1-4116-5179-0

“Just Go For It!”

ISBN 1-4116-7577-0

“A Short Spiritual Journey”  (Also see note below…)

ISBN 1-4116-8567-9

***FOR MORE INFORMATION on all books, just go to http://www.nupathz.com/newlit1.htm 

SAVE!!!  DOWNLOAD ANY BOOK FOR LESS THAN TWO DOLLARS!

FREE 15 page previews on all books!  Check ‘em out…

Note: These titles are also available from the Apple iBookstore and may be downloaded directly to your iPhone®, iPad®, or iPod touch® using the iBook app.  Available in EPub format for most other eBook Readers.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY

Love is the answer - but while you’re waiting for the answer sex raises some pretty good questions. – Woody Allen

NuPathz.com – Your affordable source for self improvement and self help books & materials

Illuminating the path for personal motivation, growth and development

SUCCESS = TAKING THE STEPS TO DO THE THINGS YOU WANT TO DO!

JUST GO FOR IT!

*****

Note: To view Gene’s Blogs posted before January 2011, just visit the “Articles” and “Odds ‘N Ends” sections of NuPathz at http://www.nupathz.com/

Download Free – James Allen’s “AS A MAN THINKETH” See below for info…

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Time.  I’m talking about Time!  Where’d it go?  Not just yesterday, or the week before, but last year – and the one before that – and the one before that…

Wow!  It seems like not all that long ago I was running through the alfalfa field on our central Nebraska farm chasing grasshoppers and butterflies and whatever other little flyie (yes, this is a brand new word that you may pencil in on the border of your dictionary if you wish) guys that happened to be hanging around that day.  And now – blink… click… flick… flash… here I am, sitting at the computer in a retired, Medicare world that I couldn’t picture – much less even consider – only a few short years ago.  OK, so maybe “few” isn’t totally accurate, but “short” fits entirely too smoothly.

As I remember back on the events of those years passed, the words that pop into my head are “Hey, it’s been a really cool trip!”  Oh, it’s not that I’ve gotten to travel extensively – other than a few sojourns across the western pond complements of Uncle Sam – and it’s not that I’ve been able to partake of the delicacies of a lifestyle of one of the “rich and famous”.  Nope.  I’ve just done pretty much normal-type stuff.  Went to school, put in some military time, got married, had kids, held some jobs, moved around, and now I’m here.  Sitting at my computer in a neat older house on a tree-lined street in a small town in the Ozarks.  Is that cool or what?

No, really!  It is absolutely terrific!  Because as I look back on the past years, I realize that I’ve generally been able to do those things I wanted to do.  Sure, some of the events and situations were totally uncomfortable, but they were important to me in that they permitted me to move on to a better – and more comfortable – situation.  And yes, I’ve screwed up and made my share of mistakes as I’ve sauntered down my life path.  Thank God!  Those goofs, those blunders and errors in judgment were the very things that allowed me to learn whatever I needed to learn so I could move on more easily to the yes, better – and more comfortable – situations.

And I’ve learned – a lot in the past years.  Sure, I still have a lot still to learn, but I’m thankful for the information that has managed to batter its way through my thick skull and into the gray matter.  I’ve helped people, too.  Family members, students, working folks and maybe some here and there that I don’t know about.  Of course, there are likely a few other folks still roaming around this old world who would question the “helping’ and might have more of a tendency to categorize my actions under an entirely different heading.  But that’s OK, too.  Sometimes we screw up and besides, no matter what we do in life, we’ll never be able to please everyone.  It’d be a waste of time and effort to even try.

  So why am I blabbering on about my average life?  Because it was – and still is – an important life.  It’s essential for each one of us to understand that no matter who we are, where we live or what we do, our life IS extremely important.  It is our opportunity to experience things and to learn from them.  It is our chance to have a positive impact on those around us.  It is our opportunity to experience love and to in turn, smear it all over anyone who dares come near us.  It’s our chance to laugh, play, and enjoy all the beauty and wonder of this great creation that we’re a part of.

So?  So, don’t waste it!  Don’t waste your precious time on the negatives.  Don’t squander those precious moments in self-pity, or whining or complaining about the inequities of life.  Don’t get caught up in the “life sucks” mode of thinking.  You don’t have time for any of that nonsense.  This is a quick trip we’re taking on Planet Earth.  Pay attention – learn – help others – help yourself – and do the best you can at whatever it is you do.  As you get closer to your life’s final chapters, I think you’ll be glad you did.  (And don’t forget to take time to enjoy the scenery!)

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And remember to take some time out every day just for you, to count your blessings, hug your loved ones and enjoy life’s wonders.  I hope you have a really great day!

**DON’T MISS THE WRAP-UP “THOUGHT FOR THE DAY”!!!

ARE YOU READY FOR A CHANGE?  Then be sure to check out the rest of our stuff (books, thoughts, quotations, links, articles, Words of Wisdom, Odds ‘N Ends, and much, much more) on our main site at:  http://www.nupathz.com/   We have over 1000 pages of everything from videos, jokes, useless facts, bumper stickers and silly signs to humorous stories, off-the-wall thoughts and plenty of terrific articles to help you with your self improvement and personal growth efforts! 

SAVE!!!  DOWNLOAD ANY BOOK FOR LESS THAN TWO DOLLARS!

FREE 15 page previews on all books!  Check ‘em out…

Also – Select Titles are now available through the Apple iBookstore and in EPub format. See Below…

Change Your Thoughts – Change Your Life!

FREE DOWNLOAD – James Allen’s “As A Man Thinketh”

Originally published in 1902, it’s the book that has provided the foundation for many of today’s self improvement and personal growth programs.  Read the original book that has helped millions of people find their way to a better, more enjoyable life.

Available from Nupathz.com at http://www.nupathz.com/Free_E-Books.htm

HAVE YOU EVER WONDERED why we are who we are – or why we’re even on this old planet in the first place?  Check out the possibilities in “WHAT AM I DOING HERE?” by Gene Simmons.  Just go to:  http://www.lulu.com/spotlight/genenupathz   - or to the “Books” section of NuPathz.com at http://www.nupathz.com/newlit1.htm 

* ” WHAT AM I DOING HERE?” is ALSO AVAILABLE through any major book retailer…

ISBN 1-4116-4824-2

Note: This title is also available from the Apple iBookstore and may be downloaded directly to your iPhone®, iPad®, or iPod touch® using the iBook app.

MORE ABOUT “WHAT AM I DOING HERE?”

There are a lot of unanswered questions in this old world.  Many are related to our religious or spiritual beliefs including - “What Am I Doing Here?”  From our present perspective as humans wandering this old planet, it’s highly unlikely that any of us will ever know with any degree of certainty.  That in and of itself may be an absolutely intentional element in the design of this marvelous system in which we find ourselves.  However, just because an answer may be elusive doesn’t mean that it’s not worth pursuing.  It can be especially beneficial because by asking the more difficult questions, we are given the opportunity to step outside of our comfort zone to look beyond those concepts and ways of thinking that have become so very comfortable for us.  This in turn then, enables us to grow and mature both as individuals and collectively as a society.

For a Quick Preview, click http://www.lulu.com/browse/preview.php?fCID=109475

OTHER BOOKS by Gene Simmons:

“Is This as Good as it Gets?”

ISBN 1-4116-4415-8

“Up Close and Personal”  (Also see note below…)

ISBN 1-4116-5179-0

“Just Between Us Critters”  (Also see note below…)

ISBN 1-4116-6176-1

“Just Go For It!”

ISBN 1-4116-7577-0

“A Short Spiritual Journey”  (Also see note below…)

ISBN 1-4116-8567-9

***FOR MORE INFORMATION on all books, just go to http://www.nupathz.com/newlit1.htm 

SAVE!!!  DOWNLOAD ANY BOOK FOR LESS THAN TWO DOLLARS!

FREE 15 page previews on all books!  Check ‘em out…

Note: These titles are also available from the Apple iBookstore and may be downloaded directly to your iPhone®, iPad®, or iPod touch® using the iBook app. Available in EPub format for most other eBook Readers.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY

The best things in life are not things!

(But you knew that already, didn’t you?)

NuPathz.com – Your affordable source for self improvement and self help books & materials

Illuminating the path for personal motivation, growth and development

SUCCESS = TAKING THE STEPS TO DO THE THINGS YOU WANT TO DO!

JUST GO FOR IT!